Those that God has brought together let no one (or computer) put asunder.
Some people believe that online behavior should not be seen as infidelity or cheating because no physical contact occurs. Research, however, suggests a different reality for the betrayed partner. M.T. Whitty (2005) found that cyber-cheating is experienced as very real. Cyber-betrayal occurs if a person in a committed relationship participates in an online activity that is perceived by one or both partners as unfaithful to their commitment to each other.
Online infidelity is defined by most as cheating and in most cases the emotional pain and feelings of betrayal replicate or mimic that resulting from more traditional forms of infidelity.
There are powerful factors that contribute to the prevalence of cyber-betrayal: accessibility; affordability; anonymity; convenience; escape from reality; and pseudo-intimacy. Cyber-betrayal results in disconnection in the relationship. If the relationship is to be restored, the unfaithful behavior needs to stop and trust rebuilt.
The Samaritan Counseling Center has a specialty in couple therapy and can help those suffering from cyber-betrayal to move back into a committed relationship. You can call 920-886-9319 for more information.
Some people believe that online behavior should not be seen as infidelity or cheating because no physical contact occurs. Research, however, suggests a different reality for the betrayed partner. M.T. Whitty (2005) found that cyber-cheating is experienced as very real. Cyber-betrayal occurs if a person in a committed relationship participates in an online activity that is perceived by one or both partners as unfaithful to their commitment to each other.
Online infidelity is defined by most as cheating and in most cases the emotional pain and feelings of betrayal replicate or mimic that resulting from more traditional forms of infidelity.
There are powerful factors that contribute to the prevalence of cyber-betrayal: accessibility; affordability; anonymity; convenience; escape from reality; and pseudo-intimacy. Cyber-betrayal results in disconnection in the relationship. If the relationship is to be restored, the unfaithful behavior needs to stop and trust rebuilt.
The Samaritan Counseling Center has a specialty in couple therapy and can help those suffering from cyber-betrayal to move back into a committed relationship. You can call 920-886-9319 for more information.
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